CHANGE THE LIFE

To change one's life:
1. Start immediately.
2. Do it flamboyantly.
3. No exceptions.

- William James

GOD MAKES LIFE OR LIFE MAKES GOD

ME SBASE PAHLE AAP SE YE PUCHNA CHAHUNGA KI U BEILEVE IN GOD YES YA NO? EK AR TO AAP YE SOCHENGE KI HA YA NA KYUKI HM{A NORMAL PERSON} YE SOCHTA HI H KI AGAR BHAGWAN NAI H TO YE SAB KON KARTA H PANI KAHA SE ATA H DIN KAISE HOTA H RAAT KON KARTA H.BT IN SAB BATTO KA JAWAB VIGYAN KE PAS H.KAL HI MAINE VIGYAN OR BHAGWAN PER BANI EK FILM DEKHI ANGELS OR DEMAINS ISME YE KAFI BARIKI SE DIKHAYI GAYI H KI KI IS PRYHVI KO BHAGWAN NE BANAYA H YA VIGYAN NE.BS ISE HI DEKHKAR MUJE LIKHNE KI ICHHA HUI.JO AB APKE SAMNE H.ME BHI EK COMMAN PERSON KI TARAH HU JO KISI CHAMTKAR KO NAMSHKAR KARTA HU.BT JAB VIGYN KE KISI KHOJ KE BARE ME PADTA HU TO SOCHTA HU KI SAB KUCH VIGYAN HI H.ME MERA HI EK KISSA BATATA HU. {ME EK BAHUT INTELLIGENT STUDENT TO NAI THA LAKIN HA EK AVG. STUDENT THA ME PAHLI BAR GHAR SE BAHAR AKELA PADNE GYA THA LAKIN AKELE HONE KI WAJAH SE YA AUR BAHUT SI WAJAH SE ME PAD NAI PATA JISKA NATIJA YE HUA KI ME FAIL HO GAYA AUR COMMEN MAN KI TARAH BHAGWAN KO KOSNE LAGA KI AISA MERE SATH HI KYU MERI KISMAT BEKAR H MAINE KUCH GALAT KARNE KI BHI KOSHIS KI YAHA TAK KI 15 DINO TAK GHAR SE BAHAR NAI NIKLA LAKIN EK DIN TO NIKLNA HI THA ME BS YE HI SOCH RAHA THA KI BHAGWAN NE MERE SATH HI AISA KYU KIYA ME JANTA THA KI YE MARI GALTIYO KA HI NATIJA THA ME DHEERE-2 SAMAJ GAYA THA MAINE EK PHIR KOSHIS KI AUR PADAI PHI AUR ACHHE NUMBERS SE PASS HO GAYA. JI HA YE WAHI BAT H FAIL HUA TO BHAGWAN NE KIYA AUR PASS HUA TO MERI MAIHNET}
ISI BAAT PER MUJE FAMOUS SCIENTIST FLAMING KI EK BAAT YAD AA GAYI JINKA KAHNA H KI “ME YE NAI KAHTA KI GOD H BT ME YE BHI NAI KAHTA KI GOD NAI H”
TO BE CONTINUED….

YOU CAN MAKE LIFE INTERESTING

1. Life pays for what we actually do and not for what we actually know.

2. Most of the human being perform and do only to the extent of 5 to 10% of the actual potential. Tap the untapped.

3. Generally a boy of <15> 15 years say “I could not because…”

4. Success is not what you possess in comparison to what your neighbor has but a comparison to your own self as what you would have had and achieved to your potential.

5. Our thoughts control our life and destiny.

6. You are solely responsible to what you are today.

7. Achievers do what they want and not what others want.

8. What you were in the past need not be a mirror of what you are going to be in the future

9. 3 important things in one’s life is:
a. How much time you spend with your family.
b. How much time you spend in exercise
c. What and when you eat today to look better tomorrow.

10. Practice not necessarily makes everything perfect but perfect practice makes everything
perfect.

11. It is interesting to say every day in the morning in the event of challenges that “ Wow..how
nice…I have a new problem to solve” – Be in good spirit.

12. Any body can succeed in life when we succeed in withstanding :
a. Criticism
b. Rejection
c. Failure
d. Excuses
e. Feeling of No time, No money and No Talent
f. Challenge mediocrity
g. Above and beyond

13. All of us are like golden Buddha wrapped in clay. If we shed down the bad covers we are too
good within.

14. You need to give your best and full to get the best in life.

15. Can you imagine of a man who was born @1910 and died @1935 and Buried @1985 ? !!! –
Better live a meaningful and successful life than live like no body / useless.

16. Repeat this hundred times every day “I would not give up until I succeed.


17. You need to flush away your past:
A. Errors
B. Failures
C. Mistakes
D. Humiliations

18. External motivation is not permanent it should come from within. Read good books atleast
30 minutes a day. Listen to good cassettes.

19. When you expect and want the best - You Get IT. Have a strong desire

20. Mind works on two principles
a. Selection principle
b. Rejection principle
Hence be careful when you select things to go into your brain

21. Do not allow any body to handle your self image / self respect

22. Do not ever say that I can not buy it is too expensive. Say that how can I prepare myself to
buy that

23. Behavior = Drive X Habits

24. Whatever the human mind can dream, conceive and believe - It can achieve

25. 5 Keys for personal success
a. Dream big dreams
b. Develop talent and competence
c. Take 100% responsibility
d. Love what you are doing
e. Single minded concentration until you achieve it

25. Do not share grow-up goals but share give up goals eg: Smoking as a give-up goal

26. CANEI should always be welcomed - Continuous and never ending improvement

27. Life equation is : Self esteem = Success / pretension

28. Every one has 3 personalities
a. What we think about ourselves
b. What others think about ourselves
c. What actually we are

29. All great men who succeeded in their life are all nothing but the net output of persistent
hard work with a single mind towards the goal.

30. All attempts may not result in total success but no attempts would difinetly result in failures !

31. One idea, one thought and one dream can change your life


SO DREAM BIG AND ALL THE BEST
ADITYA JAIN

मैंने शांति नहीं जानी है !
त्रुटि कुछ है मेरे अन्दर भी ,
त्रुटि कुछ है मेरे बाहर भी ,
दोनों को त्रुटि हीन बनाने की मैंने मन में ठानी है !
मैंने शांति नहीं मानी है !

आयु बिता दी यत्नों में लग ,
उसी जगह मैं , उसी जगह जग ,
कभी - कभी सोचा करता अब , क्या मैंने की नादानी है !
मैंने शांति नहीं जानी है !

पर निराश होऊं किस कारण ,
क्या पर्याप्त नहीं आशवासन ?
दुनिया से मानी , अपने से मैंने हार नहीं मानी है !
मैंने शांति नहीं जानी है

- हरिवंश राय बच्चन

10 tips to make u happy - knowledge.. (read it n pass on)

10 tips to make u happy - knowledge.. (read it n pass on)

Every moment that you spend here on this planet, know that you are for a unique, big purpose, far greater than just to eat, sleep and talk. You are here for a greater cause. Just remember that.

Take a challenge - "Come what may, I am going to smile today and be happy!"

For our growth, and to strengthen our lives, we need to follow some rules. These rules are called "yama" (social ethics) and "niyama"(personal ethics). They are the first two steps (or limbs) of yoga of inner union.

Yama

There are five rules to living peacefully in society and the environment:



The first rule is "ahimsa" or non-violence. Non-violence unites you with the whole of creation. Just as you don´t harm yourself, you don´t harm the rest of creation. Everything is part of you, so how can you harm anything? Ahimsa is the practice of yoga, of not harming, and realising that everything is here.

The second rule is "satyam" or truthfulness. You don´t lie to yourself, do you? You can´t lie to yourself. If you are weaving beads, you don´t say, "I am not weaving beads." You are, and you know it. When you have chocolate in your hand, you don´t say, "I don´t have chocolate in my hand." You do have chocolate in your hand!

The third is "astheya", meaning, not missing what you don´t have at this moment, nor wishing things were different from what they are at the moment - not regretting. Astheya is not: "I wish I had a voice like that person! I wish I could sing like that person. I wish I were young like that person. I wish I could run like that person. I wish I could be as intelligent as that person..." It is not comparing yourself with others, and wishing for what they have and you don´t have.

Fourth is "brahmacharya", meaning, not interested in the shapes and forms of the body. The mind, here, sees beyond the physical, to the infinite. Brahmacharya is keeping the mind on bigger things. "Brahma" means big; moving in bigger things. "I am small", "I am a man", "I am a woman", "I am a good person", "I am a bad person", "I am hopeless" - all these are small identifications.

Fifth is "aparigraha", meaning, not taking what people give you. You know, it is surprising that you often take the insults people give you, much more than their compliments! Right? Sometimes, they are not even "giving" you these insults - they are simply taking the insults "out of their pockets", but you grab them, and keep them very safe with you! If someone is giving you garbage, they may not even really be giving you the garbage - they may simply be throwing it out, but you collect the garbage and hold on to it very safely! This is what most people do. They are ready to bounce up, take negativity and keep it to themselves.

Don´t take anything from anybody, including insults! Of course, compliments don´t really bother us! They just go to our heads! What really bother us are the insults, the hurt, and all the negative words that we take from people. Don´t take them! Do you understand? This is aparigraha.


Niyama

There are five rules for one´s inner development:



The first is "shaucha", everyday cleanliness. It includes showering and keeping yourself clean, wearing clean clothes, and seeing that you don´t have bad breath. If someone stinks, they don´t notice it, but those sitting next to them do!

The second is "santosha" or contentment... happiness. Be happy! If you don´t take a step towards being happy, nothing in this world can make you happy, and you go on complaining about this and that.

Once, a farmer was complaining that the apples on his trees were not too good. Then, one year, he had very good apples! He had apples in plenty - three times more than the usual crop! Then he started complaining about having too much work to do, about having to pick all those apples, about how many were rotting, and about how the prices had gone down!

There´s no end to complaining - but life goes on anyway! It flows like a river. How do you want to live the rest of your life - the remaining 30, 40, or 50 years?

Smiling... or grumbling, feeling horrible about yourself, and blaming the whole world? So, the second rule is to be happy and content.

Third is "tapas" - forbearance or penance - meaning, something is uncomfortable, but you still put up with it happily. It´s like people who go on marathon walks for 20 miles or 20 kilometres. If we had to simply walk 20 kilometres, we would grumble, but when it´s a marathon, then one says, "Oh! I am going to walk!"

Whether you walk in a marathon, or you walk because your car broke down, your legs go through the same pain! But when you think you´re in a marathon, you come back the same, sweating and tired, but with a smile: "Oh! I did it!" This is tapas - willingly taking it. Suppose you have to travel in a plane for a long time - say eight or ten hours - what do you do? If you were asked to sit for ten hours, you would never do it, but in a plane, there is no way out! You have to sit... with a seatbelt on! You can watch TV to keep your mind occupied, but you still have to sit! So, willingly accepting opposites is tapas. This makes your body and mind strong.

Whatever you can change, change. What you cannot change, accept. If it is too cold, put on a sweater. It´s as simple as that! When it is raining very heavily, and you get wet, inspite of an umbrella - get wet!

Fourth is self-study - "swadhyaya". Observe your mind, see what your mind says, how you behave, how you act, how you feel... Do you feel good? Do you feel bad? If you are feeling bad, just observe, you start feeling good again. When you are feeling good, observe. All feelings - good or bad - will change. Swadhyaya is self-study, self-observation.

Fifth is "ishwara pranidhaana", meaning, love for the Divine. Surrender to the Divine. When you feel you are helpless, you say, "Oh, God! You take whatever it is that I am feeling!"

These are the ten rules that will make you strong, and feel whole and complete.

JIO BINDAS AND THINK FOR TODAY

LIFE IS LIKE A GAME.SO IT WANTS PRACTICE TO MAKE IT BEAUTFUL.JIO AJ KE LIYE KAL KI KAL SOCHENGE KISI NE SAHI KAHA H
"JO BIT GAYA CHALA GAYA USKA DUKH MANANE SE KYA FAYDA HAR DIN NAYA DIN HOTA H AND KISI BHI DIN KISI BHI AGE ME NAYI SHURUAT HO SAKTI H".

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